Sex at Dawn : How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships Paperback
Now in paperback, a controversial, idea-driven book that challenges everything you know about sex, marriage, family, and society."Sex at Dawn challenges conventional wisdom about sex in a big way.
By examining the prehistoric origins of human sexual behavior the authors are able to expose the fallacies and weaknesses of standard theories proposed by most experts.
This is a provocative, entertaining, and pioneering book.
I learned a lot from it and recommend it highly." - Andrew Weil, M.D. "Sex at Dawn irrefutably shows that what is obvious-that human beings, both male and female, are lustful-is true, and has always been so....
The more dubious its evidentiary basis and lack of connection with current reality, the more ardently the scientific inevitability of monogamy is maintained-even as it falls away around us." - Stanton Peele, Ph.D.
A controversial, idea-driven book that challenges everything you (think you) know about sex, monogamy, marriage, and family.
In the words of Steve Taylor (The Fall, Waking From Sleep), Sex at Dawn is "a wonderfully provocative and well-written book which completely re-evaluates human sexual behavior and gets to the root of many of our social and psychological ills."
- Format: Paperback
- Pages: 432 pages
- Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers Inc
- Publication Date: 05/07/2011
- Category: Sociology: sexual relations
- ISBN: 9780061707810
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Review by aketzle
I think absolutely everyone should read this book. It is fantastic and I will definitely be re-reading it! I can't recommend it highly enough. Do yourself a favor and check this one out!!
Review by kjreed
OUTSTANDING. Turns the idea of monogamy on its head. The authors systematically tackle every mistaken idea about monogamy being "part of our DNA" and prove otherwise. They also make very interesting arguments about agriculture being a terrible mistake for human civilization. This is a revolutionary book that's my new #1 favourite academic book.
Review by ElectricKoolAid
Wedding rings are the world's smallest handcuffs.The author argues that monogamy is not innate to humans...Duh. Why you need a whole book to argue for this is beyond me but apparantly you do. The whole monogamy trip is a side effect of the agriculture revolution and the rise of patriarchal monotheism in my opinion. Women became chattel and baby factories and sex was reduced to its procreative function. It is ironic that these religions think humans are not animals yet reduce sex to the procreative function and teach that we are still animals in this area. Yet, only humans have turned sex into art. To me, you are not fully human unless you are engaging in it for this reason. Until we separate sex from its procreative function, there will always be the double standard.
Review by selfcallednowhere
This book was thought-provoking, interesting, and funny (which you don't often find with history/social sciences). I could not put it down and read the whole thing in two days. I definitely learned a lot from it and think a lot of people would be better off if they read it.
Review by Widsith
A popular science book for people who hate science, <i>Sex at Dawn</i> manages to combine weak arguments with a prose style of such overbearing condescension that I had to grit my teeth to get through it. Everything is couched in terms of facile jokiness or, even worse, of coy euphemism, so that we have the ghastly prospect of a supposedly serious book about sexuality that can talk about a ‘human female's naughty bits’.The basic argument is that evolutionary psychologists, anthropologists and palaeontologists are conspiring to propagate the ‘lie’ that human beings have evolved to be broadly monogamous. The few studies that ‘dare’ to question this narrative are hailed as revolutionary, while the rest of the scientific community is written off as ‘the clipboard-carrying crowd’, who ‘rigidly insist’ on the status quo. Unfortunately this blanket dismissal of an entire discipline succeeds only in fatally damaging the authors' own credibility.The debate over prehistoric sexuality is one that I have followed amateurishly, but with some interest, so I was quite looking forward to seeing what kind of evidence was going to be brought forward. By about page 40 I had realised with a sinking feeling that there wasn't going to be any. Instead, their approach is simply to restate their opponents' arguments in the most ludicrously simplistic terms they can, and hope that will stand for a rebuttal.For instance, there is a mountain of evidence suggesting that prehistoric females were in the habit of ‘bartering’ sex, consciously or otherwise, for access to protection and resources supplied by males. This is a complicated and sophisticated argument, which Ryan and Jethá summarise like so:<i>Darwin says your mother's a whore. Simple as that.</i>After reading that I gave up any hope of finding a serious argument in here.Of the book's other stylistic tics, I will just highlight a few of the more irritating. There is a tendency to ask rhetorical questions as a substitute for actually making an argument: <i>Could it be possible that…? Dare we ask whether…?</i> ‘How many families are fractured by this common, tragic, undetected sequence of events?’ I don't know – do you?? If not, stop asking stupid questions and show me some evidence. (It reminds me of a tabloid headline like ARE IMMIGRANTS CAUSING CANCER?, where the rest of the article amounts to a long admission that the answer is ‘no’.)A few other representative quotations: ‘Sexual monogamy itself may be shrinking men's balls’; ‘<i>Homo sapiens</i>: the great ape with the great penis!’; ‘ancestral females were shameless trollops’; ‘Who's your daddies?’; ‘We've no space for a comprehensive response to this’; ‘Yabba-dabba-doo’. Malthus is introduced, laughably, as ‘Wikipedia's eightieth Most Influential Person in History’.If you're worried about missing the subtle message hidden in all this facile nudge-nudge-wink-winking, have no fear, because <i>they will simply put entire sentences that they consider important in italics</i>. Reading these passages feels like being talked down to by someone who doesn't even properly understand their own arguments. They also repeatedly make the infuriating implication that anyone who disagrees with them is doing so because they're morally offended or out of political expediency.What makes it all so sad is that a book offering some new ideas on hot topics like male parental investment or female sexual receptivity would actually be very welcome. This is not that book. What it really is is a plea for a return to an imagined ‘ancient [sexual] egalitarianism’ where humans – especially men – had repercussion-free sex with multiple partners. I would be more than happy to read a book promoting the benefits of polyamory, but please, don't dress it up as science.<i>Sex at Dawn</i> was condemned by most of the academic community, but it was widely promoted by people like Dan Savage and Peter Sagal, and ended up on the New York Times bestseller list. It doesn't deserve the attention, and I wish I'd done a bit more research on it before I bought a copy. Instead, my advice is to consider the response that a pseudonymous primatologist was moved to write, [book:Sex at Dusk: Lifting the Shiny Wrapping from Sex at Dawn|15892127]. Because my impression of this one is that it's a disastrous blend of wilful misrepresentations with very poor writing.
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