Please note: In order to keep Hive up to date and provide users with the best features, we are no longer able to fully support Internet Explorer. The site is still available to you, however some sections of the site may appear broken. We would encourage you to move to a more modern browser like Firefox, Edge or Chrome in order to experience the site fully.

The Ways We Love : A Developmental Approach to Treating Couples, Paperback / softback Book

The Ways We Love : A Developmental Approach to Treating Couples Paperback / softback

Part of the The Guilford Family Therapy Series series

Paperback / softback

Description

This innovative volume delineates a developmental theory of love relationships that provides a comprehensive framework for treating couples.

Drawing on 30 years of clinical experience, Sheila Sharpe conceptualizes marriage and other committed partnerships as comprising multiple patterns of relating that develop over time in a parallel, though interconnected, fashion.

Seven universal patterns of intimate relating are identified: nurturing, merging, idealizing, devaluing, controlling, competing for superiority, and competing in love triangles.

In this multifaceted formulation, each pattern has its origins in early development, is reworked in different ways throughout life, and expresses everyone's basic needs for both connection and separateness.

The book describes common problems that couples encounter in the normal development of each pattern, as well as the kinds of defensive interactions that result when a couple's development is more seriously disrupted.

Guided by this framework, clinicians learn ways to precisely assess and more effectively treat couples experiencing a wide range of difficulties.

Clear, vivid clinical illustrations bring to life the entire process of therapy and demonstrate how the therapist's emotional reactions may be used to enhance treatment.

Information

Information